Seeking Coastal Utopia

Ouch! “top view photography of broken ceramic plate” by chuttersnap on  Unsplash You made a mistake! You screwed it up! Now what? . . . Own it! Things happen. If you are not making mistakes, if you are not making a mess of things, then you are not engaged and you are not trying. If you are not making mistakes, then you are just standing on the sidelines, waiting for other people to do something. Consumer. That is not you. “take a leap” by Kid Circus on  Unsplash You are looking for the next thing. Looking to make changes. You are a producer. You are making an effort to better yourself and others. Yet sometimes stuff happens and it does not all go to plan. If you are making mistakes then you are showing the world that you are trying. You are making an effort to do something that you have not done before. Guess what? You are a rock star for trying. You are doing something that most people are afraid to do. Yet now it is time to own your mistakes. ...

“red number neon signage” by Karolina Szczur on  Unsplash A lot of you are probably thinking, what is Rule Number 6? Others are probably thinking what happened through 1 through 5? There are no other rules. Benjamin Zander described Rule Number 6 in his book The Art of Possibilities . Here is a vignette from one of his talks and he describes rule number 6 how it came into play. I have been keeping Rule Number 6 as guidance with the blogs I have been creating. It has been helping me remain grounded (what?!? I don’t have more followers? WTF!) reminding me to keep from being too serious. It allows me to enjoy this more, being slightly less competitive and hopefully making it enjoyable for those that discover these readings. Stop being so serious For that matter, what does it mean to be so serious? How can anyone be so serious? I remember as a younger dude and saying “ serious as a heart attack ” — I suppose that is pretty damn serious. A simple project management trick...